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Jake Gordon, Buxton, Maine
March 2, 2026
Rose and family,
Gerry was a late 1960s/early 1970s friend in the Portland, Maine area. We enjoyed sharing times together as single young men. That included Gerry introducing me to you Rose. You may recall Roe, that I took the two of you sailing on Casco Bay one lovely Maine summer day. That day when the late afternoon breezes died down our return to shore was delayed to such an extent that Rose was unable to return to Haverhill to keep a date with someone else. Rose suspected that the delay was intentional which was the cause of quite a spat. After anchoring and tying up my sloop, I went home to Falmouth while Gerry and Rose returned to his apartment in Cape Elizabeth. I was awakened by a 2 a.m. phone call that night. It was Gerry and Rose sharing their news that they had argued it out with a happy outcome. They were officially engaged!
Subsequently, I too met the love of my life in November 1972 on a visit to a friend in Florida. It was love at first sight for me, mutually confirmed on 1973 New Year's (again in Florida), engaged mid-February and married that June. Given marriage, new house and eventually three family additions '78, '80 and '83, I lost touch. I lost my beloved to cancer in 2011. Since then, I wondered what transpired with Gerry and Rose. From time-t-time, I searched online without results. This morning, I was inexplicably moved to lookup "Gerry Connelly, Haverhill, MA" again. I was saddened to read the obituary. However, I was also gladdened to learn that that the love affair announced at 2 a.m. of that long ago morning had lived on into 2025 and lives on today in memory.
Rose, family, and friends, my condolences on your loss. I hope you are comforted by your memories of his love for you all. Gerry was person whose joy in and appreciation of life was infectious. My recollections of him raise my "internal happiness index". We were all blessed to have known him.
Jake Gordon
Jake Gordon
Roseanne T. Minichiello Carpenter
September 8, 2025
I am deeply saddened by Gerry's passing. He always possessed kindness,compassion,depth of character,typified by a charismatic personality that radiated sunshine. A man who always protected his fellowman. A true heart,a true friend,a true spirit.
Jeff Parenti
September 6, 2025
I'm so sorry to hear about Uncle Gerry. I enjoyed the time I spent with him. He adored his family. Please accept my condolences.
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