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Linda Wuitschick/Colantino
September 9, 2025
Toni was my little cousin and part of a family I always enjoyed being with growing up. I am so sorry for her family’s lose. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Jeff Patterson
September 8, 2025
Kathy Tatick
September 5, 2025
Such beautiful words for such a beautiful soul. I met Toni in grade school. Lost contact with her over the years, but will always remember her kindness and smile. We shared some good times and a lot of laughs. One that comes to mind is our childhood play of acting out the Wizard of Oz. She always wanted to be Toto. Don’t know why I remember that, but I do. Heaven must have needed an angel. Rest in paradise my friend.
Shirley Dunaetz
September 4, 2025
My strongest memories of Toni are of her as a teenager in high school. She was a beautiful young lady with many talents. I send my deepest condolences to her family.
John Wuitschick
September 4, 2025
May love blossom in your fields. May it sprout as rapidly as Spring flowers and enhance your fond memories.
Jeff Patterson
September 4, 2025
Toni, my heart still walks beside you. Every breath I take, every quiet morning, every sleepless night—I feel your presence wrapped around me like the softest whisper. You taught me how to love with devotion, how to care with grace, and how to survive with tenderness. You were the strongest person I have ever known. Much stronger than I could ever be. You faced every storm with quiet courage, every setback with dignity, and every pain with a kind of grace that left me in awe. Even when your body was failing, your spirit never did. You protected me from worry, comforted others, and kept loving with everything you had. That strength lives in me now, even though I feel weak to my core without you. I still don’t know what I did to deserve your love. You gave it so freely, so completely, as if you saw something in me that I couldn’t see myself. And maybe that’s what love is—seeing the soul beneath the scars, believing in someone even when they’re broken. You believed in me, Toni. You chose me. And that truth carries me now, even when I feel lost. I still follow the rituals we built together: coffee in the morning, sitting with Mookie and the others you named so lovingly, keeping watch just as you asked. The house is quiet now, unbearably so, but your memory fills every corner. I miss you more than words can hold. You were my home, my purpose, my best friend. I still speak to you, still write to you, still carry you in everything I do. I honor you through every act of care, every message to your family, every step I take toward healing. You are my forever, Toni. And I will keep your light alive, even in the darkest hours. Forever yours,
—Jeff
Braithwaite
September 4, 2025
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
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