Pamela Ruth Bartoe

Pamela Ruth Bartoe obituary, Burnsville, MN

Pamela Ruth Bartoe

Pamela Bartoe Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by White Funeral Home - Burnsville on Feb. 18, 2025.

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Pamela Ruth Bartoe, age 78, of Burnsville, MN, passed away peacefully at her home on February 14, 2025, with her husband by her side. Born in Cloquet, MN, to Walter and Marion Wappes, Pam graduated from Cloquet High School. She married Thomas Bartoe on January 3, 1970, also in Cloquet.
Pam was a Pastoral Associate and Chaplain for 27 years. She was an active member of Mary, Mother of the Church in Burnsville, MN, and a of the Association of Catholic Chaplains and past president of the Military Council of Catholic Women. She also served on the Minneapolis and St Paul Archdiocesan RCIA Steering Committee.
Pam is preceded in death by her parents and her brother, Tim Wappes. She is survived by her loving husband, Tom; her sons, Joshua (Kelea), Zachary (Chelsea), and Matthew (Lindsay) Bartoe; and her grandchildren, Noah, Brooklyn, Violet, Bennett, and Preston. She is also survived by other relatives and many friends.
A Mass of Christian Burial will be held at 11 AM on Friday, February 28, 2025, at Mary, Mother of the Church, 3333 East Cliff Rd., Burnsville, with a gathering of family and friends starting at 10 AM at the church. Private interment will take place at Fort Snelling National Cemetery at a later date. Memorials will be donated to the Heart Association or Mary Mother of the Church.
White Funeral Home 952-894-5080
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Barbara (Frost) Johnson

May 6, 2025

I visited with Tom and Pam in 1983, when they were living in Hawaii. I didn't get to know Pam very well, but grew up with Tom and have fond memories of that time, as we are first cousins. Was so sorry to hear of Pam's passing and pray that Tom will be comforted during this phase of his life.

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