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Micah Rhea Arrants, 17, of Concord, passed away at 4:22 p.m. November 22, Thanksgiving Day, at the North Carolina Children's Hospital in Chapel Hill. He became suddenly ill in October and died of complications resulting from a rare blood clotting disorder.
Micah tried to be a friend to everyone. His warm smile and laughter, his sense of humor, and his randomness will be missed by many. He loved his family and friends. He loved his crazy cats, Bongo and Rocky and puppy, Callie. He loved music and in particular, a new bass guitar he bought with money he earned working as a server at Taylor Glen Baptist Retirement Home. He tutored elementary-school children after school, worked with an animal rescue group and helped build a Habitat for Humanity house. Micah loved to run through the woods with his cross-country team, and always provided encouragement and support for his teammates. He loved creating works of art. He won his school's Art III award and looked forward to creating a portfolio for AP Art in the spring.
Micah wished that everyone would tread lightly upon the earth, and always carried a positive energy about him. He had the opportunity to visit nearly all of our country's states, and a good part of Canada, on four major road trips with his family. He really enjoyed visiting national parks and appreciating the fantastic natural beauty of our world. He was a senior scholar-athlete at Northwest Cabarrus High School, where his father teaches math. Micah planned to mjor in geology or environmental science and hoped to run on a college cross-country team. Micah was selfless, and in a recent college essay stated "I truly want to make the right decisions in life."
The family wants to thank the dozens of dedicated doctors and nurses who cared for Micah over the past six weeks and who worked tirelessly to help him. Many developed strong connections with him during this time.
He is survived by his parents, Joseph Arrants and Gail Smith-Arrants of Concord; his sister, Kate, a student at UNC Chapel Hill; his half-sister, Shannon Goodwin and his niece, Eve Goodwin, of Baton Rouge, LA; paternal grandmother, Mary Sue Kerr of Bristol, TN; maternal grandmother, Ria Smith of the Philadelphia area; many beloved cousins; and his aunts and uncles, Steve and Donna Arrants of Highlands Ranch, CO, Joe and Linda Shipley of Blountville, TN, Harold and Teena Sproles of Bristol, TN, Frank and Barbara Krause of Cranford, NJ, David and Terri Smith of Marblehead, MA, Pete and Susan Beebee of Roslyn, PA, John and Carol Burke of Stuart, FL, and Allen and Chris Smith of Johnstown, PA.
Micah was a longtime member of Piedmont Unitarian Universalist Church in Charlotte. A service celebrating Micah's life will be held at 7:00 p.m. Monday at Concord Christian Church, 3101 Davidson Highway (N.C. 73), Concord.
The family will receive friends at Concord Christian Church after the service. Interment will be private.
In lieu of flowers, the family has established a college scholarship fund for cross-country runners at his school. The family requests that memorials be made out to the "Micah Arrants Scholarship Fund in care of NCHS" Northwest Cabarrus High School, 5130 Northwest Cabarrus Drive, Concord, NC 28027.

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Published by The News & Observer on Nov. 25, 2007.

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Leanne Mullins

November 22, 2008

Micah,
It's been a year now as of today and it's still hard as ever. I love you, and you will always be in my heart. You influenced my life greatly and I can never thank you enough. Be with everyone down here today, it's going to be a rough day for many. Take care up there, and I'll see you again some day.
<3

Jake Hoskins

January 11, 2008

Dear Arrants Family,
I had the pleasure of running with Micah this year on the Cross Country team and even in the short time I knew him, I could tell he was a unique and awesome individual. My fondest memory of Micah is of him and Chase giving me my nickname of Sodapop. I feel for your loss, i keep your family in my prayers, stay strong.

Shannon Heslop

December 21, 2007

To the Arrants family,

First I suppose I should begin with how sorry I am for your loss. Whenever sadness overcomes me do to the loss of Micah, I can't help but think of his family. I can only imagine losing a brother or son, especially someone like Micah. I hope you know that while he'll never be in his previous form on earth again, he is always with you. Sometimes it feels like he's here with me, and whenever I feel that feeling I tell him how much I miss him and I pray to God that he'll go to the three of you. He'll never truly be gone. He's with you through everything. Just remember that. I can just see him, watching the tears fall from the eyes of so many people who loved him, and him saying "Come on now. Don't ruin any oppurtunity that comes your way by dwelling on the past. Get up and have fun." He was the type of person that always wanted the best for everyone. He put others before himself and was always concerned with others' feelings. I know the pain is almost unbearable but hopefully time will ease the pain. I just wanted you to know that your son, and brother, was the most amazing person I've ever met. The first time I met him I was drawn to him, even though I had just learned his name. He was quite the individual and caring and hard-working. At work, even if he was the last one done, he never did anything half-way. He wouldn't worry about rushing and would let anyone and everyone have the plates and cups they needed before he'd get his. We all had chores each day, and Micah had a thing for "trash and laundry." No matter who had "trash and laundry," Micah always did it, and wouldn't think anything of it. He just liked helping others. Over the summer, a new, rather odd, guy started working at Taylor Glen, and while everyone else pointed out his flaws, Micah said something nice. He said "he goes to my school and he's actually extremely smart." I was in awe of his awesomeness. He really touched my life. I just wanted you to know that. I'll never forget him. He'll be the person I tell my kids about. The person I hope they'll want to be like. I have every intention of trying to have the kindness and compasion Micah had every day. I miss him, and I always will. Know that if you need anything, I am here. Even if you don't really know me, I'd like to help if you need me.

Once again I am so sorry for your loss. Micah Rhea Arrants will forever be in my heart.

Love,
Shannon Heslop

Kasey Kropa

December 3, 2007

To the Arrants family,
I have been student teaching with Mr. Rhoney for the past semester. I got to know Micah through cheering for him and his teammates at cross country meets (since I am a runner myself) and being in Mr. Rhoney's room each day as runners were on their way to practice. Through the few conversations we had, I want you to know that he truly impacted me. Micah is the kind of son every person would want to have as well as the kind of student and person every teacher wants to know. I am so grateful to have gotten to know as little about him as I have. I have and will be continuing to pray for the Lord's grace on your family as well as His continued provision on your lives. Know that so many people are praying the same. God is good, He is loving, and He is sovereign over all. Remember this each morning as you wake and each night before you fall asleep. Take comfort in Him.

Karren Ferguson

December 1, 2007

What an outstanding testimony your young son left on this earth! What a fabulous kid he must have been and although I never met him, I have met so many kids like him!Somehow, they always bring hope to a world that is full of hate and evil. God bless you all and take comfort in remembering what a wonderful young man you raised and what a positive impact he made!You are in my prayers...

Vickie Williams

December 1, 2007

To Micahs Family
My neice,Kayla,worked with Micah at Taylor Glen and we are so sorry for your loss.May God comfort you through this and help us all to understand why.

India Watkins

December 1, 2007

I read with a heavy heart Micahs obituary as I offered prayers for each of you as you begin life without him in your midst. I did not know Micah yet his joy, compassion, service and committment to doing what is right is a powerful testament to his brief life. I pray your days will be comforted and complemented by delightful memories of him and by his loving pets. May you weep freely and fully in your mourning and know he is with you always. May Thanksgiving become a time for his friends and family to give thanks for his life and love and the lives he touched and improved. Peace be with you all.

The Smith Family (Johnstown, PA)

November 28, 2007

Micah we love you.

GUADALUPE GARCIA

November 27, 2007

TO THE FAMILY OF MICAH ARRANTS,
ALTHOUGH I NEVER HAD THE OPORTUNITY TO KNOW MICAH THAT WELL OUR CLASS OF 08 AND I WE WILL NEVER FORGET ABOUT HIM WE WILL MISS HIM I WILL KEEP YOU AND YOUR FAMILY IN MY PRAYERS!!!!!!!!! WE WILL MISS HIM

Tom and Sally Goughnour

November 27, 2007

Please accept our sincere sympathy on the passing of Micah. We didn't know Micah, but have heard about him from Tom and Elissa. He was a wonderful young man and will be missed by many.

Alice Meador

November 27, 2007

Joe,
My very deepest sympathies to you and Gail and Micah's sister. I am dumbstruck.

Alyson Blair Almond

November 27, 2007

I never had the opportunity to know Micah but did have the honor of working with Gail for several years. It's obvious that Micah was loved and will be missed by so many. You are all in my thoughts and prayers!

Ben Hovis

November 27, 2007

To the family of Micah Arrants,
I just wanted to drop you a note letting you know how much Micah meant to those around him. I run NCRunners.com and have now received emails, from members of rival schools of Micah's, telling me what kind of person he was. I know this is a hard time but try and cherish the thought of those lives he touched and will continue to touch.

Megan Heslop

November 26, 2007

Dear Arrants Family,
My deepest sympathy and sorrow for your family. I learned of Micah's illness through my sister shannon who worked with him at taylor glen. Micah impacted her life and the life of many others in such positive ways. I will keep you in my prayers.

Julie Mitchem

November 26, 2007

Met Micah at Taylor Glen and enjoyed him and will miss him.

Sara Fennell

November 26, 2007

Gail and Joe,

I doubt you remember me, but I want to share my condolences. I have two sons myself now, and cannot imagine how your lives must be today. I am so, so sorry.

Diane Holloway

November 26, 2007

Dearest Family of Micah
Vigilence as far away as Bristol has been maintained over the past few weeks. We are the friends of Teena Sproles and her family. We are in sorrow to hear that Micah has left us. Prayers are going up to the Lord for the comforter to send you some peace from this grief.
With love and prayers.
BRMC Surgical Services

Gena Herndon

November 26, 2007

Dearest Arrants Family,
It was a devastating blow to hear of Micah's illness, and then of his passing. Lindsey was absolutely heartbroken. She was with Micah from Winecoff through Northwest. Kristen, who graduated with Kate, is so full of sadness for your loss. Our family will keep you in our prayers and our hearts through this mournful time and beyond.

Bill, Gena, Kristen and Lindsey Herndon

Jim & Ann Arnold

November 26, 2007

Joe, Gale, Kate,

Your family is on our pray list. We have passed this on to all of the Thomas family. The Thomas family is a rock and so are you!

Chirs & Wayne Schillinger

November 26, 2007

Dear Arrants Family,
We learned of Micah's illness from our son-in-law Eric Frueh and have been praying for him. We are so sorry to hear of your loss and continue to pray for your family at this difficlut time.

Brittany Taylor

November 26, 2007

I never really knew Micha but i had Mr. Arrants both fresman year and my sophmore year. Thats all he use to talk about was Micha is such a good runner, Micha this, Micha that. Im very srry about this and i will continue to pray for the family.

Bob Davis

November 26, 2007

My thoughts and wishes go to you in this time of loss.

The Krause Family

November 26, 2007

Micha we will always love you.

Emily Goodwin

November 26, 2007

Micah was truly a blessing in my life even though I knew him for a short time. He was a great guy who thought a lot of his friends and others. He always made me smile and at times he was the only one who could make me smile. I will continue to pray for the family and for the loss of their loved one. There is a place in my heart that is reserved just for Micah and that place will always remain in my heart for him.

To the ones he has left behind, I wish you all the love in the world and all of the blessings of God on your lives.

Bill Diskin

November 26, 2007

Gail and Joe:

I do not have the words to express my sympathy and sorrow for your loss. Please know that your family is in our thoughts and prayers.

May you find comfort and peace in this difficult time.

Randy & Ellen Benton

November 26, 2007

I did not know Micah but my child was in a class of Mr. Arrants in ninth grade. Micah's name was added to our prayer list this past Sunday in Sunday School and mentioned again at our ACTS worship team meeting. I wanted you to know that he will be prayed for and we are truly sorry for your loss. I have 4 children of my own and 4 nephews of the same age range and can ONLY imagine what you and your family is going through. Please know he is at peace.

Louise Fowler

November 26, 2007

Dear Gail, Joe and Kate,

We are so sorry.Rob and I wish we were there today to sit with you. We love you and grieve with you.

Louise, Rob, Steven and Matthew

Becky Pressley

November 26, 2007

Dear Arrants Family,
I came to know about Micah from my sister, Lynn Rhymer, Principal at your son's school. Our entire family has been praying for all of you. Your son has touched so many people and has truley been a blessing to all. We are so sorry.

Mary Alice Adams

November 26, 2007

Dearest Gail, Joe and Kate,
I am without words for the enormity of your loss. I am sending my deepest love, and my prayers. I wish I were there with you.

Leigh Dyer

November 26, 2007

Gail, Joe and Kate: You are one of the kindest, most loving families I know, and I am so sorry you are having to endure this loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Kat Sweaney

November 26, 2007

Micah was a wonderful person who I wish I had known better. He lives on not only in the hearts those who knew him but in the hearts of those who are inspired by the stories about him. If we could all aspire to be more like Micah then the world would truly be a better place!

Laura Larrabee, MD, Cabarrus Pediatrics

November 26, 2007

Please know that our thoughts and prayers have been and will be with you. Our hearts go out to you at this difficult time.

Amity Furr

November 26, 2007

I've known Micah since elementary school. Never once did I know him to do anything that would be against other people. He was always trying to help someone and make them smile. I was also fortunate enough to get the chance to work with him at Taylor Glen. He was one of the greatest guys I've ever met, and we all love and miss him very much. My thoughts and prayers are with the family and all of his loving friends. He will forever be apart of my heart.

Justin Kinney

November 26, 2007

Micah was a amazing person and I'm glad that I got to know him for the couple brief years we shared together at NCHS. He will be greatly missed. The Arrants family is in my prayers.

Patience Waldroup

November 25, 2007

Micah will truly be missed. As you slowly return to your lives, know that you will always be in my thoughts and prayers. He will forever be the guardian angel of Northwest's class of 2008.

Michelle Gaddy

November 25, 2007

Micah was a real inspiration to me, and I feel he was to others as well. Please remember the life he did live wasn't wasted, but well spent. He will be deeply missed.
Sincerely,
Michelle Gaddy

Kathleen Curry, Mike Weinstein, Elizabeth & Leah

November 25, 2007

His was a most wonderful life. Godspeed, dear friends.

Tiffany Ha

November 25, 2007

Micah.. you're an amazing guy. There's so many people that love you so much. It's really hard to believe that you're gone. You'll be missed but forever in our hearts.

Kristin Curtis

November 25, 2007

Dear Arrants Family,
I did not know Micah on a personal basis, but I know what kind of person he was. He was an extremely kind and gentle person who always cared for others. He has impacted so many lives. Just know that he is now in a better place and is still here with us in our hearts. Micah is and will forever be missed dearly. I will continue to pray for you guys. God Bless.

Caitlyn Coley

November 25, 2007

Micah was a great person to be around. He was in some of my classes at school and I dont remember him once getting angry or upset. He always had a smile on. He will be dearly missed.

Brent Barbee

November 25, 2007

I didnt really know Micah very well, I wish I could say he was my friend but I guess I never got the chance, I have prayed for your family so much and I will continue to do so. Micah will not be forgotten

Kevin, Lisa, Taylor and Chandler Brown

November 25, 2007

We never had the honor of knowing Micah, but we prayed for him after hearing his story when our niece Julia was near him in the PICU. We are so sorry for your loss. We will continue to pray for God to comfort your whole family in this time of sorrow.

Sherry Fowler

November 25, 2007

Gail, Joe and Kate,
Amber, Brett and I are deeply saddened to learn of Micah's death. Memories of Micah will live on in our hearts. May God hold you in the palm of His hand and may His peace surround you.

Ira Shapiro

November 25, 2007

Joe & Gail
JP sent me this link. I am so sorry for your loss. You have my deepest sympathy and condolence. May God be with you.

Karen Jo & Howard Renshaw

November 25, 2007

Joe & Gail,

We are so sorry to hear of Micah's passing. We have been praying for him & your entire family during this difficult time.

The Thomas' family are a very big part of our foundation: deeply loyal & strong. Draw strength from that.

May God grant you Peace.

Shannon Davis

November 25, 2007

Dear Arrants family,
I haven't seen or heard about Micah for many years. I had him in my daycare class when he was young. Even then he was a beautiful person and we always knew he would be very special.

Andrea Cunningham

November 25, 2007

I was enjoying my opportunity to get to know Micah this year as my students and I prepared together for the AP Studio Art class coming up this spring. As I have heard and read about him, I have realized I didn't know him nearly enough. I am mourning the loss of the opportunity. Micah, our class will desperately miss you next semester but you will be a BIG part of it!

Ira Anderson

November 25, 2007

My daughter, Alexandra, was on the cross-country team with Micah. Let me just say that she thought he was the most thoughtful, kind, happy, joyful, energetic, hard-working, handsome young man that could brighten up a not-so-good day by just smiling. It is very difficult to understand the why of it all, if there is such a thing.

John Perry

November 25, 2007

Joe and Gail,
Our Prayers have been with Micah and you all since we first learned of Micah's illness. We will continue to pray for you and ask that God grant you peace.
John, Lisa and Ben Perry

Blair Brown

November 25, 2007

Micah was a great person and friend! I like everyone else will really miss seeing his big smile! The Arrants family will be in my prayers!

Blair Brown

November 25, 2007

Micah was a great person and friend and will be missed greatly! The Arrants family will be in my prayers!

Carolyn Koncal (Rec. Therapist at UNC)

November 25, 2007

My thoughts and prayers are with you. May you find peace his holiday season.

Jacquelyn Burrage

November 25, 2007

We loved Micah at Taylor Glen and we extend our love and sympathy to his family. Mrs. Burrage

Gloria Thornton

November 25, 2007

You do not know me ... but I was drawn to read the very thoughtful obituary for your son. He seems like someone that made the world a better place. While your loss is undoubtedly overwhelming, the loss of a loving, caring, civic-minded young man is truly a loss to us all. May you find peace. God bless your family during this tme and always.

Linda Hooks

November 25, 2007

Joe & Gail,
You are vey much in my thoughts and prayers. May knowing that others care give you strength during this time.

Abbe Fletman, Jane Hinkle, Ted and Liz Fletman

November 25, 2007

Gail, Joe and Kate -- We are so, so sorry for your loss. May Micah's memory be for a blessing.

victoria cherrie

November 25, 2007

I had the pleasure of knowing micah for just over two years. He was a beautiful young man whose energy brightened rooms and lives. While I feel blessed to have known him, he too was blessed with a wonderful family. You are in my heart.

Piggott

November 25, 2007

I am as are we all, without words.

Aimee Brown

November 25, 2007

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life’s routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

Jim, Heather, Michael, Jamie, Justin and Zachary Pawlak

November 25, 2007

So sorry to hear about Micah.
Your in our thoughts and prayers.

Judy and Keith Heaton

November 25, 2007

You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Jeremy Lea

November 25, 2007

To the arants family,
I would like to offer my condolences on the passing of your son. Micah was indeed a friend worth having. I have enjoyed knowing him over the past 12 years. Although once in high school we seldom got the chance to hang out, Micah was still a very good friend to me. I also appreciate the hospitality you've shown me over the years. I will truly miss his warm smile, energy, and compassion for others.I will cherish the days that we spent together. May god bless each one of you.

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