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Cathleen VanEpps Obituary

Cathleen Van Epps
Cathleen Mary Van Epps, of Bethany, was a caring wife, mother, grandmother, sister, aunt and friend. She left this world suddenly on September 25, 2023. Born on January 27, 1953 in New Haven, CT to the late William and Alice Silvestrini McMullen, Cathy leaves her husband, Dan; daughters, Meredith and her husband Alex Eilertsen and Rebecca and her fiancé Alex Strenta; two grandchildren, Wolfgang and Poppy; and her brother, Bill McMullen.
Friends and family were Cathy's joy, and she surrounded herself with friends extending back to her childhood. She was a lifelong teacher and children's librarian. Most recently she worked in the children's room at Clark Memorial Library in Bethany, where she derived so much happiness every day from the bright-eyed little ones. She loved daily walks in the woods with her dogs, Toby and Sarah, and gave much loving care to them both. Her spirits were always lifted by the many critters and birds in our woods and had pet names for them all.
Cathy and Dan have created an enduring legacy in partnership with the Bethany Land Trust to preserve in perpetuity more than 20 acres of forest adjacent to their home known as Van Epps Preserve, with Cathy's Emerald Trail named in her honor. We lift her to the Lord's arms, in remembrance of the good we saw in her and the love we felt from her.
Friends are invited to visit with her family on Friday, September 29th from 4:00 to 6:00 p.m. at BEECHER & BENNETT FUNERAL HOME, 2300 Whitney Ave., Hamden. A Memorial Mass celebrating Cathy's life will take place on Saturday, at 11:00 a.m. in Our Lady of the Assumption Church, 1700 Litchfield Turnpike, Woodbridge. Burial will be private.
In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation to The Bethany Land Trust at www.bethanylandtrust.org. To leave a condolence for her family, please see obituary at www.beecherandbennett.com.

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Published by The New Haven Register on Sep. 27, 2023.

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Jocelyn Miller

February 15, 2025

I'm glad that I was able to hire Cathy to work in several departments of the Howard Whittemore Library in Naugatuck. Cathy and I often had substantial conversations regarding each of our animal rescue organization experiences.

Pam Cohn

October 3, 2023

I've known Cathy since I was about 8 or 9 years old. Here is an early picture of the original "Orchard Road Gang" which grew over the years. We go back a long way- sleep overs, making forts in the woods, swimming at Sperry Falls, riding our bikes to the Blue Check....One special memory...the year " A Hard Days Night " came out; Cathy, Jen and I got to go see it for Cathy's Birthday party and we sat through it twice.

Danny I always thought you two would end up together..so very happy you did...and so very sorry your time was cut short. The picture you chose above is how I always will remember Cathy - that great smile with a little mischief in it and her love of fair isle sweaters. She always had the prettiest sweaters. Heaven has a new angel!

Jocelyn Miller

September 27, 2023

When I was the Library Director, I hired Cathy VanEpps to work in the Children's Department, and during future years in the Adult Circulation Department and the Reference Department of the Howard Whittemore Library in Naugatuck, CT. Cathy and I had many enjoyable connections/conversations, especially regarding our mutual love for dogs. - Jocelyn Miller

Dottie

September 27, 2023

My sincerest condolences to you and your family at this time. I worked with Cathy at the library, and everytime we met, she was always so cheerful and a pleasure to talk to. I wish you and your family peace and comfort. Dottie Bedan

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