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Marilyn Shaffer Obituary

Marilyn was born at home in rural Henry County on April 21, 1926, to Edith Pearl Meyers Reid and Glenn Dale Reid, who preceded her in death.

On Aug. 27, 1950, in McClure, Ohio, she married James Alfred Shaffer, who preceded her in death on May 13, 2018.

She was a graduate of McClure High School and Bowling Green State University where she was a member of Pi Omega Pi.

She attended Union Chapel Missionary Church and was a member of Zion Lutheran Church. She previously was a Sunday school teacher.

Marilyn's professional journey was marked by dedication, leadership, and a deep commitment to empowering others through education.

She began her working life in California's garment industry, then served as a secretary at The Ohio State University Engineering Office and at Ohio Steel. But it was in the classroom where she found her true calling.

Over the years, she taught business education at Haskins High School, Fostoria City Schools, Auglaize Local Schools, and Lima City Schools. Her career culminated at Rhodes State College (formerly Lima Technical College), where she not only taught but helped shape the future of the college itself. As a founding faculty member, she was instrumental in developing the Secretarial and Office Administration program - laying the foundation for generations of students to succeed.

In 1984, her excellence was honored when she was named Outstanding Faculty Member. Her legacy lives on through an endowed scholarship established in her name, ensuring that her passion for education continues to uplift and inspire others.

She volunteered as a 4-H advisor for many years.

Marilyn enjoyed her children, grandchildren and great-grandchildren, traveling, flowers, and was an avid reader.

Surviving are her son, David (Vivien) Shaffer of Harrod, and daughter, Jo (Bruce) McConnell of Spencerville; seven grandchildren, Jennifer Shaffer (Steve Etzler) of Harrod, Matthew (Bethany) Shaffer of Wapakoneta, Douglas (Ann Marie) Shaffer of Waynesfield, Nathan (Jenny) McConnell of Canal Fulton, Rachel (Jonathon) Koester of Lima, Tyler (Morgan) McConnell of Venedocia, and Claire (Billy) Taflinger of Lima; 14 great-grandchildren, Kyle and Zane Newland, Autumn and Lauren Shaffer, Elijah and Isaiah Shaffer, Sophie and Sadie McConnell, Daniel and Philip Koester, Charlotte and Marcus McConnell, and Will and Mary Kate Taflinger and Baby Taflinger on the way. Marilyn is also survived by numerous nieces and nephews.

She was preceded in death by her sister Dorothy (Richard) Mowery.

The family would like to thank Dr. Agarwal, Dr. Bowlus, and the staff of Fresenius Home Dialysis for the extraordinarily compassionate and personal care they gave to Marilyn.

Visitation will be held on June 28 from 1-3 p.m. at Union Chapel Missionary Church. Celebration of life memorial will be held immediately following. The cremated remains will be buried at a later date.

In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to Union Chapel Missionary Church, 4869 Ada Road, Lima, Ohio 45801.

Arrangements handled by Chamberlain-Huckeriede Funeral Home.

Condolences may be expressed at www.chamberlainhuckeriede.com.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Northwest Signal on Jun. 24, 2025.

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Mark Mohr

June 28, 2025

Condolences and prayers to your entire family, sorry for your loss, but what an awesome life to celebrate. Thinking of you Mark and Sandra Mohr

Paula Siebeneck

June 26, 2025

Mrs Shaffer was my professor at Lima Technical College. She was very much loved and respected. I was later a colleague when I started working at the college. What a very kind person she was!

Peggy Stawarski

June 26, 2025

Mrs. Shaffer was one of my teachers at Lima Senior many moons ago. RIP, you were a super and sweet teacher!

Nancy and Chuck Haton

June 25, 2025

Aunt Marilyn was a very special aunt. She was always interested in what we were doing in the business world and would be a joy to be around. I was honored to be in their wedding as their flower girl at age 4. She will be missed as we sisters would try to visit with her every summer when I would be home from Florida. She will be missed

Pam Feldner and family

June 25, 2025

Jo, I am so very sorry to see where your mother has passed. She was such a nice person. I have fond memories of sharing the Suters strawberry patch with her and your dad on one very hot day and also with you at Western Sizzlin. Cherish all your wonderful memories and keep her close to your heart.

Pam Feldner

Phyllis Brandt Schindler

June 25, 2025

My condolences to Dave and Jo and all the family. I know you recall my precious friendship with Marilyn. She isa lovely and fun person. I recall all the FUN times we spent together with our husbands, Jim and Paul. Those are precious memories! I first met her in 1952 as Paul and our friendship started. All our times together are my memories! Love to you!

Carla Spencer Limbert

June 25, 2025

I have many fond memories of Marilyn from growing up in Harrod, 4-H, and church. She had a remarkable life and a wonderful family. Dave, Vivian, Jo and Bruce, you all are in my prayers. God bless

Mark Hadley

June 24, 2025

My heart goes out to the family of Marilyn, for the loss of a truly loving person. I understand the loss you feel and wish for you the comfort and peace the goes along with knowing she is at rest in a better place now.

Julie Rockhold

June 24, 2025

I'm very sorry for your loss. I always thought very highly of Marilyn, both as my 4H advisor and teacher at Lima Tech. She helped shape my career. She will be missed.

Marilyn Lewis

June 24, 2025

I remember many wonderful times with Marilyn and Jim, Vondale and Orion Steel and my parents. We had lots of cookouts, card, game nights and fun. She was an amazing lady and lived life to the fullest. I am so glad that I had the opportunity to know her and Jim. They were wonderful friends to my parents. I will miss this amazing lady.

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28

Visitation

1:00 p.m. - 3:00 p.m.

Union Chapel Missionary Church

4869 Ada Rd, Lima, OH 45801

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28

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3:00 p.m.

Union Chapel Missionary Church

4869 Ada Rd, Lima, OH 45801

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